Consider Others (Better than yourselves)

A verse that has always seemed difficult obey is :

Philippians 2:3 "...but in humility consider others better than yourselves NIV

Most people, including myself, are naturally inclined to take care of themselves before they care for others. So I need some help to obey this verse. Do you? John Maxwell gives some good advice with something he calls the "30 Second Rule":

"I've developed a simple rule in relationships to help me shift away from a selfish vantage point. Within the first 30 seconds of a conversation, I say something encouraging to the other person. Giving out compliments focuses me on the value of the other person and prevents me from being self-absorbed."

Maxwell goes on to say that we should give people the Triple A Treatment:

1. Attention
2. Affirmation
3. Appreciation

When I follow this it helps me to put others first. What tricks have you learned in helping you to esteem others?